Jaqui's Daily Blog

Thursday 16th August

My lovely friend Marilynne died yesterday evening.


It wasn't unexpected.  We knew, when she was taken into a hospice last Tuesday, that she did not have very long left.  So when her husband Arthur, also a dear friend, phoned this morning I didn't feel shock, just overwhelming sadness.  But I can only be glad for her that she died peacefully, painlessly and, as always, firm in her faith.  She has had a long, hard struggle against cancer for many years - and nobody is more deserving of a rest in peace.


Marilynne was a school-teacher of the good, old-fashioned variety - all hand-knitted cardigans and thick spectacles.  I used to wonder how she would fare in today's classrooms, but of course that warmth, gentleness, tenderness and love of children - all of which Marilynne had in abundance - would always win the day.  Didn't I see it for myself, ten years ago, when she organised the games for all the children at our Golden Jubilee party, held in our back garden.


We've been doing the last of our holiday packing. I've cooked two apple pies for tomorrow night's first evening meal and somehow managed to wash my white dressing gown in the doubtful company of a bright red serviette so that it is now a not-very-fetching shade of pink.  In other words, life goes on, with all its minor triumphs and disasters.  Sometimes when you are at your happiest, it seems that sadness hits hardest.


So I read about elephants.  Did you know that when a member of the herd passes, even elephants mourn?  They gather around, extend their trunks and gently touch the tusks of their fallen friend.  It's their ritual. It's sad and it's beautiful.  It's how they heal. 


Rest, peacefully, my dear and gentle friend.

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Sue McDermott | Reply 16.08.2012 21.29

So sorry to hear of the passing of your dear friend, it comes hard when it is someone we have known for a very long time. Rest in peace Marilynne.

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I had to look up ambiturn. Power to you Jaqui. And our good wishes to Mr. B. Please mind your back and give yourself a break now and then.

16.03 | 08:26

Do so hope he's home soon. Take care of yourself as well as Bri-anne. Love to you both. xx

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06.02 | 10:03

Nice memory was not aware of your blog then as i said yesterday love the memories.x bas

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